Saturday, 5 January 2013

Shapes of Love


                                              Love is the most beautiful thing in life, not because it's good, but because you would live it to every dimension in life. Love can be conditional, unconditional, from two sides, a love triangle, you can even love someone whom you have never met or spoken to because you feel that they are good at one nothing, not necessarily at anything else.

When someone comes to you and says, "I love you," it does not mean that they love you for who you are, or what you have done, or what you might do or don't, or for absolutely no reason but they love you.
If someone loves you for a reason, then it is conditional love and that does not mean that it is not true because even when the deal you have with them is finished, they will still love you. While the cause might diminish, love remains the same. It can be changed, and it can fade. It depends on the one who loves you and on you to make this love stay and linger.

If you are going to believe that there is only one sort of love and that is unconditional, then you are greatly mistaken. Love is in all sorts and in all dimensions. You love things as well as people, places and theories. Your love does not mean that it's unconditional because the book you love would not be your favorite if it was written in any other style; the actor you love would not be your favorite if he had different roles that you do not like; the TV show you love would not be your favorite if it was presented in a different way.

But then again, you fall in love with that person for absolutely no reason; from first sight or not, you only feel that there's something about them that you cannot let go off; something that attracts you to them and that is inevitable.

To explain it in a not so complex way, love is all about passion. You might be a workaholic and you would prefer the money you get over spending time with your lady friend, but that does not mean that you don't love her. Your passion drives you a lot and wherever there is passion, there is a very strong feeling and the two strongest feelings in the world are love and hatred.

Your love can go in anyway, to anything. Do not expect that the person you are in love with or in a relationship with to love you for nothing because if you change, things change too. When seasons change, the weather changes and so does the environment. Conditional, unconditional, reasonable or crazy: they are all sorts of love.

Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world and being in love, for whatever the reason may be will be the greatest experience in your life. Don't overthink it because overthinking will shake it. Just accept it, no matter how it or for what it happened.

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